why to be sad for what is gone???

time comes n goes wat remains wid us is memories....a lot of memories good,bad,smiling,crying....if we hav truly loved someone we should not feel sad on their departure from our life bcz if we hav truly loved them then obviously we hav given them everything,we hav had share everything wid them our laugh,cries,smiles,tears..everything so we should not b sad or crying...being sad is common, everyone feels a little sad but crying is something which in a way shows our regret. Wen they were there hadn't we given them everything ?? if the answer is yes then y do we cry?? if we hadn't love them then crying is worth coz we missed d chance of showing our love and care but now even crying won't work out bcz they r gone n now they will never come back....n if u showed all ur love n care then now there is no need to cry,there is nothing to regret bcz u have lived best moments of ur life wid them...:)
Live your life n love it so that u dont have any regret in future of not saying someone that how much u love them n care for them...be it ur dad,mom,brother,sister,ur grandparents or anyone jus love them n commit ur love for them n u'll lead a much better life after...:) <3

prejudice behaviour

We all have a kind of  habit to create an image in our minds about a particular person just after having a glimpse of him/her. We do not even think about talking to that person,knowing his/her condition. we just pass our judgement without even thinking how much will it hurt to that person!! who has given us the right to talk about people without even meeting them and talking to them?? you never know what circumstances that person is going through n what tensions he/she is having but we don't care we just give our views n start talking behind the back.. I really don't understand why people are so quick to pass judgement? As a human being I know it is not possible to stop talking about people when you first see them but atleast we can limit our judgements and we can stop creating a particular image positive or negative...because we see only that behavior which they choose to show not which they actually have.. think about it and then decide do we do right??